Does your husband not take your side—with his family or outside (with friends and relatives)? New brides often face this problem. Are you also strugling with a similar issue?
Please, Do not be upset. Through this post, I will share some domestic rituals and our services that will help you overcome this sorrow.
Does Your Husband Not Listen To You? Try To Find Out The Reason?
According to a study published in the Indian Journal of Medical Research—“Public Health Impact of Marital Violence Against Women in India“—a large portion of married women in India do not receive sufficient support from their husbands. Sometimes, instead of taking their wife’s side, husbands limit their social connections.
Do you feel that when something hapens in the family, and you expect your husband to be on your side, but he isn’t? If so, have you tried to understand the reason behind it?
If not, then first try to find out the reason –
1. Is there a misunderstanding between the two of you about something?
Often, a husband loves his wife, but if he has to choose between his wife and his family, he ignores his wife due to social pressure and the desire for her to get along with the family in the future. He wants his wife to understand his family as well.
2. Different Perspective:
It’s possible that the way you’re looking at a situation is wrong in his eyes, and it’s also possible that by not taking your side, he wants to warn you not to do that again.
3. Lack of deep conversation:
It also happens that when girls get married and enter a new environment, they don’t know everything about their husbands (for example, what’s on their minds), mainly because of a lack of deep conversation between the two.
Just like we have a close friend whose every thought we know in advance, you often don’t have that kind of bond with your husband.
Whose responsibility is it to fix all this? Think deep and let me know –
Home Remedies To Get Your Husband On Your Side:
However, if you feel something different, like **your husband’s attitude toward you has suddenly changed,** then I have writen some remedies that you can try at home. This is because nowadays, most people are jealous of your happiness (which causes a “evil eye”) and because of this jealousy, they are making bad prayers and doing bad things to you.
By doing these remedies, you will experience sweetness in your home and relationships.
1. Talk Openly And Honestly –
First, try to solve the issue through communication. To understand your husband’s perspective, despite the argument, lovingly cook and serve him his favorite food as if nothing happened.
As the famous American newspaper columnist and novelist **Fanny Fern** said –
“The way to a man’s heart is through his stomach.”
After that, calmly discuss the issue with him.
But be careful not to raise your voice or say anything that might provoke him. An honest and thoughtful conversation can easily reveal big secrets. Consider this the key to your love.
2. Understand Your Husband’s Perspective.
It’s true that sometimes, just talking isn’t enough to solve a problem. In such cases, you should try to see things from your husband’s perspective, and the rift between you will become clearly visible.
As Stephen Covey famously said, –
“We see the world not as it is, but as we are—or as we are conditioned to see it.”
If you set aside your perspective and try to think from your husband’s point of view just once, you’ll not only win his trust, but such situations will also be less likely to occur in the future.
3. Pray To Your Deities (Pooja). Worship Lord Shiva And Parvati.
If you feel that your husband’s behavior has changed recently, it’s possible that your love has been affected by the evil eye or that you have reduced your religious practices. Whatever your religion, and whichever god or goddess you believe in, pray to them and ask for peace in your life.
Worshiping keeps your mind and soul calm, and you don’t want to get into unnecessary arguments. If you are Hindu, you should worship Lord Shiva and Goddess Parvati.
According to the Shiva Purana, “any man or woman who offers water, milk, and bael leaves on the Shivling on a Monday receives special blessings from Lord Shiva, and their married life remains full of happiness.”
4. Light A Ghee Lamp In The House
To overcome this problem, you should light a holy lamp with cow’s ghee in your home every evening to purify the atmosphere. Doing so helps destroy negative energy and harmful microbes, while spreading positive energy throughout the house. This positive energy fosters love and peace within the family.
According to the Puranas, disagrements between husband and wife can also arise due to Pitra Dosha (ancestral imbalance) and Vastu Dosha (architectural or directional flaws). A household affected by both is often surrounded by conflict and instability. In such situations, lighting a ghee lamp daily is considered highly beneficial.
Such a simple daily ritual not only brings harmony but also invites divine blessings into your married life.
5. Sprinkle Camphor Or Ganga Jal In Your Home.
If you feel that someone can’t stand your family’s happiness and has cast a spell on your husband (negative energy), you can try a home remedy: On Tuesdays and Saturdays, you can burn camphor, loban, and gandhak (sulfur) on a cow dung cake and spread the smoke throughout the entire house.
This removes all evil powers (negative energy) present in the house and purifies the atmosphere. Additionally, you should sprinkle Ganga Jal (holy water) in the house every day.
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If you are not benefiting from the home remedies I’ve suggested above, you can take the help of our prayer rituals, which ensure no side effects. Think of it like this: “Diamond cuts diamond.” Similarly, we take the help of positive energies (divine power) to understand and resolve your problem. If you wish to avail of our services, you can click on this page.